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		<title>Sending Thank You Notes</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 12:09:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Meggin McIntosh, Ph.D.</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many years ago, sending hand-written thank-you notes was considered not only proper, but &#8220;de rigueur.&#8221;  In this somewhat crazy, stressed-out, impersonal world, people are so &#8216;busy&#8217; that they send computer-generated (not personal emails; mass-produced, impersonal) thank-you notes for wedding gifts, which may have cost $20 &#8211; several hundred dollars.  When did that become acceptable?  Here&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">Many years ago, sending hand-written thank-you notes was considered not only proper, but &#8220;de rigueur.&#8221;  In this somewhat crazy, stressed-out, impersonal world, people are so &#8216;busy&#8217; that they send computer-generated (not personal emails; mass-produced, impersonal) thank-you notes for wedding gifts, which may have cost $20 &#8211; several hundred dollars.  When did that become acceptable?  </span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">Here&#8217;s the good news for today&#8217;s professional:  If you send thank-you notes, you will stand out from others because doing so is now such a rarity.  Note:  I always try to look at the upside of things. </span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">So, here are some considerations for thank-you notes: </span></p>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Use them</strong>.  Sending thank you notes is a classy way to &#8216;be.&#8217;  You certainly can have thank-you notes that go along with your stationery.  You can also have special ones created that have your logo on them, but you don&#8217;t need to have that.  What is required, however, is sending thank-you notes to clients, people who have done something special for you, those with whom you work, or someone you see written about in a local newspaper.   <br />
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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Don&#8217;t worry about your words.  Worry more about getting your thank-you notes written and mailed</strong>.  Your thank-you notes don&#8217;t have to be long.  They don&#8217;t have to be beautifully worded.  You don&#8217;t need to have an expensive Hallmark card.  But, what thank-you notes do need &#8211; is to be written and sent.  When people do things for us, we need to acknowledge it.  <br />
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<li><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Sending a belated thank-you note is better than not sending one at all</strong>.  Many times, I get so behind on my thank-you notes that I think, &#8220;This is ridiculous, I can&#8217;t send a thank-you note this late.&#8221;  I finally had to get past that and just write notes to people.  If I cut an article out of the newspaper or a magazine a year or year-and-a-half ago, it&#8217;s pitiful that I haven&#8217;t send some kind of a note to that person &#8211; so although the first temptation is to toss the article, I now realize that it&#8217;s MUCH better to go ahead and send it anyway.  A number of times, the recipients of the note said, &#8220;This was such a nice reminder,&#8221; or &#8220;I appreciate that,&#8221; or &#8220;You&#8217;re the only person who acknowledged it.&#8221;  Apologize for it being late, if you need to, but I would encourage you to send thank you notes &#8211; promptly or embarrassingly late.</span></li>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">The bad news is that thank-you notes are few and far between here at the end of the first decade of the new century.  The good news is that you can make someone&#8217;s day by sending such a note.  Try to send at least one a week and see what happens.  </span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">For other ideas to support your effectiveness and productivity, you&#8217;ll want to access the resources at: </span><a href="http://www.toptenproductivitytips.com/"><span style="color: #ff6600;"><strong>http://www.TopTenProductivityTips.com</strong></span></a><span style="color: #ff6600;"><strong> </strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">(c) 2009 by Meggin McIntosh, Ph.D., &#8220;The Ph.D. of Productivity&#8221;(tm) </span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">Through her company, Emphasis on Excellence, Inc., Meggin McIntosh changes what people know, feel, dream, and do via seminars, workshops, writing, coaching, &amp; consulting.</span></p>
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